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Relationship settings

Control how deep Relationships goes, what it tracks, what AI can see, and how it connects to the rest of your Life OS. Sensitive notes stay private — you’re always in charge.

Depth & tracking

Start simple, go deeper any time

Relationship modeHow much your overview shows

Tracking styleHow detailed your logs are

Check-in frequencyWhen to prompt your daily check-in

Modules

Turn off what you don’t use

Key peoplePriority relationships & rhythm

Partner / RomanticOptional — off if it doesn’t apply

FamilyContact rhythm, dates, calls

FriendsFriendships & reconnection

Social networkCommunity, mentors, support

CommunicationFollow-ups & conversation prep

Conflict & repairThe repair loop & follow-ups

Social energyEnergy budget & recovery

BoundariesPrivate & off by default

Important datesBirthdays & anniversaries

ExperimentsAdvanced — test small changes

AI coaching & privacy

Sensitive notes are private by default

AI coaching levelHow active the coach is

Let AI use private people notesOpt-in — off by default, never automatic

Let Journal reflections inform RelationshipsReflections shape gentle insights

Hidden people & circlesSome people stay out of AI context

Lock private notesRequire confirmation to view sensitive notes

Notes may include details about other people — store only what is useful, respectful and appropriate. AI guidance is for reflection and relationship support, not therapy or crisis care. Private notes are never part of AI context unless you turn it on above.

Connections

What Relationships shares across your OS

Relationship objects are shared, not copied. Turn an area off to hide its Relationship links — the connection is kept, just not shown.

RoutinesShow Relationship routines in Routines

HabitsShow Relationship habits in Habits

GoalsShow Relationship goals in Goals

CalendarShow Relationship events in Calendar

JournalShare reflections with Journal

ReviewsFeed Relationships into your reviews

AcademyConnect lessons & protocols

AI CoachInclude Relationship context in the coach

Reminders

Optional, gentle, easy to turn off

Daily reach-outOne intentional message

Partner check-inWeekly · Saturday

Family callSunday 11:00

Friend follow-upWhen a friendship goes quiet

Important datesBirthdays & anniversaries

Conflict repair follow-upAfter a hard conversation

Weekly relationship reviewSunday

Missed routine follow-upA gentle nudge, never nagging

Contact import & integrations

Permission-based · manual works fully today

Contacts and calendars are never imported or shared automatically. Nothing syncs until you explicitly grant permission — and you choose exactly who and what comes in.

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Google CalendarDates & events

Relationship events appear on your calendar through Life Mastery.

Active via CalendarOpen

Google ContactsPeople & birthdays

Bring in key people and birthdays — with your explicit permission.

Coming soon

Apple ContactsPeople & birthdays

Sync names and important dates from Apple Contacts, permission-first.

Coming soon

Apple CalendarDates & events

Two-way sync for birthdays, anniversaries and meetups.

Coming soon